Saturday, February 21, 2009

Boys - Wild at Heart

Our boys have really taken off in the fencing department! They were introduced to it last fall and have loved it. They practice once a week for two hours and then if they have time they practice in the backyard. When you consider that guys have so much need to be active, warriors, fighters, knights - anything with a weapon: bow and arrow, hunting rifle, machine gun, spear, or sword, it is not difficult to figure out why it was such a success!!

The sad thing is how little it is noticed out there in the world. Boys need a good outlet for all that male energy. Think back to not that many years ago, when men and boys were called to protect and expected to provide for their families. In our country we do not live that way as a norm anymore. Boys don't know what to do with themselves. Think of those boys that are playing violent video games and watching graphic violent television shows and movies. Those kids need to just be *guys*. There is a book called Wild At Heart. It is about men and it talks about the male need to be *men*!

I am so glad our boys love fencing! Even Austin is now into it. He is only 9 years old, and the size of a 7 year old, but he has the mighty spirit of a warrior! When I wasn't sure about sending him to the last competition his coach said, Yes! He has the energy and excitement that we need!! So he went. He had lots of fun and got to spar off against kids that were bigger and better than him, but he learned and is excited to go next time.

The Audience




In the meanwhile, the older boys have now been to two competitions. Cassidy was in the 12 and under category, and Dane and Colt were in the Cadet category - over age 12. In both competitions Cassidy brought home a silver medal, and Colt earned himself two bronze medals! The competition was fierce and it was a nail biter!! At times they would compete against someone in the elimination round and the points would be stacking up one by one - one for him, one for the other, one for him, one for the other. Oh, it was tight! Talk about exciting!



And then there is the danger side of it. Sadly, by the lack of involvement from the general publics children, the message comes across that fencing is for 'other kids' - not tough stuff or some such message. Well, they are sadly mistaken. It is a dangerous sport! They wear vests with under padding, and face masks, but it can still be risky. At one time, during Colt's round his opponent's sword passed the vest and went under the mask and made a nasty abrasion on his throat! It hurt and the competition had to stop for a bit for Colt to gather his wind and be ready to move on again. But did that stop him? Nope!

Now the boys are all geared up for the Provincial match that will take place in May. They are excited and I think they will keep the others hopping! Colt has even found out that there is fencing on the base if he joins the airforce!
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2 comments:

Michelle said...

Wow..how neat! I agree with you...boys do need a positive outlet. Wild at Heart is one of my favorite books. Your family is such an inspiration to me on ways to rear a pack of boys especially. :) And I just wanted to say how adorable sweet little Raine is in her updated picture on the side. Her hair is growing beautifully! :)

Anonymous said...

Fencing Looks like it may also have some other advantages, that looks like a cute girl standing with one of the boys. When do we get to hear the outcome of the science fair? Cassidy took thousands of Photos is he going to share some of them with us? The photo of Raine makes her look so old, has she changed that much or is it just the photo, she is still cute as a button. Can you tell I am starving for information, I am a "And Then There Were Ten" junkie.